Like women, men are perfectly capable of tantalizing with their genitalia. Though many people don’t talk about the fact that men tend to be pussy teases more than women tend to be cock teases in this era of ever-shifting gender identity, it’s very much a fact. It’s so difficult to get men to give it up these days without putting on airs of not actually wanting it.
The moral of the story is, if you’re going to tease the pussy, you best please the pussy. There’s nothing less attractive than a man who acts offput by a woman with a strong libido. The dainty Williamsburg man tends always to be horrified by a sexually appetitive person–it just proves too intimidating for them. Although, I will make the concession, that, if they’re doing it right, men have a lot more work cut out for them in the bedroom. But, at the same time, orgasms come (no pun intended) much more easily to them.
This happened to me recently when I recently starting seeing a new person whom I initially thought was a “man” only to learn after wasted time and effort on my part that he was nothing more than a cunt tease. Yes, I am serious… In addition to being sub-par sexually the first time we got together. A week or so after this disappointing experience with him, he started sexting up a storm and when I wasn’t into it initially, he gave me verbal encouraged to engage in the activity. Admittedly I am not an experienced sexter as I prefer to show the other person how I feel rather than exchange witty banter in circles around “the sex.” But I made an effort to match his level of sexting, and did. Don;t get me wrong; sexting can be great IF you’ve done a decent job of satisfying the other person or intend to follow through with that part in the foreseeable future. However… a man becoming a full blown cunt tease and sexting a woman that he is going to perform oral sex on her and getting into details of how he plans to do this, etc. to build excitement and anticipation followed up by asking the woman when they’re going to hook up again only to “pass” on the offer when she finally agrees to try again with this sub-performer is just plain wrong, not to mention a complete turn off–just the same as when women do the cock tease on men with no intention of materializing that behavior into action (pun intended).